Due to the fact that I get many requests each day from fans that are eager to contribute to the Mann Landers Column - I figured it was only fair to give my legion of followers an opportunity to speak their mind.

Every Wednesday, aka “Hump Day”, I’ll be posting a reader’s question on the site and ask that you all lend that poor soul a “Helping Hand” by sharing your advice in the comments section.

I continue to look forward to reading your insights and perspectives each week - this is your shot to lend a “Helping Hand”.  Without further adieu…

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Dear Mann Landers,

I’m in sort of a relationship with a pretty cool chick. I wouldn’t say we’re dating, at least not officially. But we often spend nights together. She’s fun to hang out with and gets along with every one of my friends. That’s all well and good, but as far as looks go she’s really not my type and I could do better.

I have a pretty wild job and eventually will be moving, because of this it’s already been stated that neither of us is wanting to get into anything too serious. I recently went away on business for a month and upon returning I could tell I was missed a little more than I’m comfortable with. Part of me feels horrible for caring so much about looks, but I just don’t see myself being serious with her. How would you suggest I approach the situation?

Sincerely,

Too Independent, In Tennessee